Monday, August 8, 2011
I know this is petty
I just removed all my soon to be ex-husbands family and close friends from my facebook. I know, so childish, but at 1st I didn't want to delete, because most are nice and I like them. Now I know I am going to have to move forward and I can only move forward if I feel comfortable doing so. Sometimes on FB people post things or places or pictures, I don't want him viewing my every move. If he wanted to know about what I was doing, then he wouldn't want to get a divorce. In the next month or so I am going to be putting up info about my new job and maybe my new house stuff and he really doesn't need to know about any of that!!! I guess I was hoping that my husband would magically become well and we could still be together, maybe not 24/7, but maybe sometimes. I am building a new life, a life that was imposed on me because of his illness, and the only way I can move forward and make it how I want it is if I am free of the binds of wanting to participate in a life that is no longer mine. So be gone from my facebook all you people that make my heart hurt, be gone!!!
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Wise decision. good for you.
ReplyDeleteThanks, it does feel good to not be open to be monitored, not like they really care that much, but just for me!!
ReplyDeleteIt will get better :)
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